Our last week on campus just before the holiday break wasn’t really eventful, save for the lecturers actually rushing us through the course work for the week in a bid to balance meeting up with the new timetable and discharging their duty to teach us following a strict and detailed course outline. Lectures are only supposed to be for a specific number of weeks and each week has been designed in such a way that all the topics that need to be taught must be taught, there is no room for spill overs: especially not in the Almighty Lagos Campus with its yet-to-be-matched history of excellence. Sometimes I really feel for the lecturers too actually, they are as affected as we are with this new development, perhaps even more than we are. They are the ones who’ll have to spend nothing less than 8 hours teaching 2 streams of students, ensuring that nothing is left out.
It was such a relief though, the mere thought of having three whole weeks to ourselves: no 8am classes, no mandatory group meetings, no personal/group tasks, no “pass the microphone to your neighbour”, Et cetera.
The week came to an end so quickly for me, I had to constantly ensure that the plans for my event for the weekend were in place: my NGO would be having its fifth anniversary and we plan to celebrate it as a dinner/Award night, we also would use the opportunity to unveil our mega project which involves building a home for Destitute children. It is my hope that we are able to get people key into this dream so we can all collectively bring it to reality. I was looking forward to a fulfilling weekend, albeit stressful.
My daughter had called me earlier in the week to inform me of her state of health, I wasn’t too pleased, in fact, I was scared and sad I couldn’t be there with her. She’d only just recovered from typhoid-malaria illness before I resumed school, and I could not think of why she was complaining of the same symptoms again. I spoke with my mom about my worries and informed her of my discussion with the doctor, I knew she was in good hands but I simply couldn’t help but wish I was there with her. My husband also assured me she’s going to be fine and he made sure he was in touch with them every now and then. Each time I called or received her call, one thing that tells it all is her voice: with her, I sometimes wonder how much she communicates just with the sound of her voice, I can tell just how happy, sad, hopeful, discreet even, she is with a single “hello mummy”. By Friday, she sounded better and I was grateful to my God. I’ve experienced the sickness of a loved one – one of the worst kinds, I seek refuge in my creator from any experience that would bring that memory close to me again.
“I seek protection in the perfect words of Allah from every evil that has been created.”
[Muslim]
It is narrated that the Prophet (ﷺ) used to say the above dua for the protection of al-Hasan and al-Husayn (His grandsons). This is a beautiful dua for protection of family members, especially our beloved children.
On the last day of lectures for the year, the excitement in the air was uncontained, practically everyone deserved the break and looked foward to it.
Our lecturers too I’m sure. As soon as the class was over, students were seen immediately getting their bags and belongings, and vacating the halls of residence, a good percentage left on that day: those who had a flight to catch, and those who simply couldn’t wait to leave the past few weeks behind also. I however made sure I completed my registration process, “the medicals”, I then treated myself to a nice plate of ofada rice which I ordered from a newly-found-favourite restaurant in the area. By night-time I had a good long sleep through the night. oh, how much I needed that! A luxury we’ve missed these past couple of weeks.
I was glad for one thing – I didn’t have to take my stuffs back home with me as I’d feared, that was one of the advantages of staying in the Executive room where I stay with my friend. I left with just my books which I hope I would be able to read and my dirty laundry. The drive down home didn’t look so daunting in the morning as it would have been if I’d left the day before.
I miss school already though.
Barely a week into the holidays, I’m here dreaming about classes already!
Well, the weekend was highly fulfilling, I was elated to meet my children and family in good health, the event went well and I felt honoured greatly by the amazing number of people who showed up simply to celebrate with us, with me. I was also taken by surprise when my team mates presented me with an “HERO OF THE YEAR” award. It was a very sweet and touching moment for me, a tear even escaped my eyes. A few days after, I recovered from the illness caused due to how much I’d stressed myself at the event. There were moments when I cried out in pain though, but it was all worth it, and my husband was there on the other end of the line, keeping me together.
The kids are presently on visitation at their uncle’s, to spend the holiday with their grandma and others. My son had said to me before they left “mommy don’t worry, nobody would disturb you now and you can rest well”, if only he knew just how much I’ll miss them; I’m missing them greatly as it is. I’d hope to spend this period with them before leaving for school again, but I’m glad they are able to spend some time with their father’s mother, the loss of her son – their father – has not exactly been easy on her. I’m sure they’re having a terrific time. I’m here, just resting and trying to catch up on lost sleeps and good meals.
The only thought on my mind while bedridden was …”My Lord has honored me.”
Q89:v15
For indeed He has!
Then which of the favors of your Lord do you doubt?
Q53:v55
Absolutely none!
Mar’yam Thaoban
NobleHeart
24.12.’21